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Tips for Choosing Wedding Gifts for the Bridal Party

Monday, August 2nd, 2010

The bridal party is a very important part of the wedding ceremony. The bridal party is usually made up of your best friends, or perhaps your brothers, sisters and cousins. Whoever they are, they are the people who have been there for you both through both good and bad times, and they should continue to be there for you in your married life.

When choosing wedding gifts for bridesmaids and groomsmen, it is important to choose gifts that show your appreciation for them. You want to be sure that you can provide them with gifts that are fitting for the occasion, but are also useful gifts that the recipients should always cherish. This is not the time to buy something cheap. However, there is no need to spend lots of money when you are already spending plenty on the wedding itself! Here are a few quick tips for finding great gifts for your bridal party without spending more than your wedding budget has available.

Give your bridal party gifts that really fit with the theme of the wedding while expressing the joys of the wedding celebration. Therefore, if you have chosen a specific theme that you are looking at, try to incorporate it in the gifts. Flip-flops and other beach attire for a beach-themed wedding or pretty jewelry for a princess and prince themed wedding are both great ideas.

Also, think about the overall formality of the day and try to fit that in as well. For a casual beach wedding, flip-flops are great gifts, but for a formal, evening wedding, cufflinks and bracelets are going to be a better option. You want to keep in mind the theme and the formality, and you should be able to get a couple of great ideas about the gifts that you are giving to those in your bridal party.

Another idea is to make sure that you incorporate something about you and your relationship into the gifts that you are giving. First, focus on the two of you. Are you into going “green” and being environmentally friendly? Then put your gifts into reusable shopping bags, or have certificates to “green” stores inside of them. Are you musicians? If so, include something in your gift that reminds them of this. Secondly, think about your relationship with the actual person. Not all of the bridal gifts have to be the same. Golf tee gift sets can be a great gift for one who enjoys golfing. By first thinking about the two of you as a couple, and then relating to the person who is getting the gift, you should be able to come up with some unique and interesting gift ideas for the people on your list. You have probably known these people for a very long time, and therefore, you can incorporate something about your own relationship with them, into the gifts that you are giving them for being in the bridal party.

Next, you should begin thinking about personalization. It might seem like a hot trend, and it is, but it definitely serves a purpose as well. When you give a gift that has been personalized, you are showing the recipient that they really do mean a lot to you, that you would go to the trouble of personalizing their gifts. You can show them how much they mean to you simply by doing this, and there are many places where personalization can be done easily and quickly as well. It is very easy to make great gifts even better, simply by personalizing them for each member of your bridal party. Engraving on metal, for example, is relatively inexpensive and can typically be done when you purchase the item.

Remember that your bridal party gifts are going to say many things. First of all, they speak about the theme and formality of your wedding. Secondly, they should say something about you and your spouse to be, as well as something about the relationship that you have with the person that is receiving the gift. Lastly, if they are personalized, it typically shows the recipient that they really do mean a lot to you, and that this is just the beginning of something that they can cherish for a long time.

Giving bridal party gifts is something that you want to think carefully about, but if you give the right gifts, you may find that they can enhance your wedding and make both of you very happy. Finding the right bridal party gift can be a fun process because there are many great options available. Considering the location of the wedding, you can choose from both formal and informal products. With a little creativity, you can discover that perfect gift for you bridal party, but remember that each person in the wedding can receive a different gift.

Lisa Parker is a freelance writer and blogger who writes about family and family events such as weddings, often focusing on one specific aspect of a wedding, such as bridal party gifts.

Choosing Your Wedding Card Box

Wednesday, July 28th, 2010

One of the most important wedding decorations you choose is going to be your wedding card box. Why? Because everyone sees it and interacts with it. Anyone who gives you a card will put that card inside the wedding card box, and some people will take notice of what it is like.

That doesn’t mean you have to spend hundreds of dollars on yours, in fact, some of the best wedding card boxes are the cheapest. They rely on simple decorations, nice fabric coverings and a great sense of style that is perfect for weddings.

Picking the Right Wedding Card Box

The best way to choose the right wedding card box is to select one that matches your design theme. This makes the wedding card box blend in with your decor. Guests will be impressed with the way you matched all the decorations at your gift card table.

Buying Cheaper Wedding Card Boxes

Buying a cheap wedding card box is a good idea if you want to save money, because your are going to find that cheap card boxes are just as nice as more expensive ones. If you want to stretch your dollar even further buy one that doubles both as a reception gift card holder, wedding card box, wedding money holder and even keepsake box. Find any one that is a blend of both and you have saved yourself from buying two decorations. That’s half off!

You can also find really decorative wedding card boxes that aren’t much more expensive. The wedding cake card box is a unique idea. It is a card box shaped like a wedding cake and the tiers can be used as keepsake boxes. Another idea is the birdcage cardholder. This Spring themed card box is shaped like a birdcage and is a great gift card holder for a Spring wedding.

To find better wedding card boxes you can shop the niche outlets and online stores for the best bargains.

They carry similar wedding card boxes that are really nice and worth taking a look at. You will find a lot that you can customize too.

Choosing Every Wedding Cake Accessory

Thursday, July 15th, 2010

A wedding cake will obviously not be the beauty that it is without every important piece of wedding cake accessory. Each wedding cake accessory should be carefully picked or made with great attention to detail. Each wedding cake accessory should ideally complement your wedding theme. The most common cake accessories include toppers, boxes, servers, charms and sweets.

Cake Topper

Your most important wedding cake accessory would probably be your cake topper. Choose a custom made piece for this wedding cake accessory that will go well with both your theme and your personality. For formal wedding events, you can have an elegant monogram topper. You can also have the traditional bride and groom wedding cake accessory topper or a similar topper style in a different pose for a more romantic and dramatic effect.

Weddings in beaches or informal wedding venues can feature a wedding cake accessory topper that is unusual or humorous. Have figurines dressed in casual clothes and featured in funny scenes or pick animal or fantasy character toppers. You also have the option of picking figurines showing the couple’s special interest. More daring couples can have this wedding cake accessory fashioned after figures that are not typically associated with weddings such as black birds and horror characters.

Cake Boxes

Share the sweet delight of your wedding cake with special cake boxes. Cut a small slice for each guest and place on a wedding cake accessory box wrapped in your bridal colors in tulle and silk ribbons.

Cake Charms and Jewelry

Leave a special memento to each of your bridesmaids with a wedding cake accessory charm. Have each bridesmaid pull the cord of a wedding cake accessory charm to get a glimpse of her fortune. Have them keep and wear their special charms. If you are especially generous, dot your cake with semi-precious stone jewelry or faux jewelry for each of your bridesmaids and some of your female guests to wear.

Cake Cookies and Sweets

Don’t forget the little kids. Add something special for them on your cake too. Sink some cookies and candies on your cake icing and give the kids a box each. Carefully have them assisted by an adult as they harvest the sweet goods around your wedding cake.

Cake Servers

This important wedding cake accessory should be paired with a cake knife. Pick a server and knife made of steel, pewter or silver with stylish handles made of the same material as the blades or made of stylish crystal, glass or plastic.

Pick a serving set that speaks about your personality and that matches your wedding theme. Have sea shells and creatures added to your serving handle for a beach wedding or have a heart shaped server blade for a more romantic effect. For formal events, have your names engraved in gold on plain silver or steel handles. Save this wedding cake accessory set as a memento of your special day.

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Choosing and buying wedding favors

Wednesday, July 14th, 2010

History of wedding favors


Historically, the giving of wedding favors is thought to date back to old European aristocracy, who gave small boxes filled with sugar to their wedding guests. Since sugar was scarce in their time, it was considered the ultimate prestigious gift.


Eventually, the idea of wedding favors spread to the masses and took the form of five sugar-coated almonds wrapped in delicate cloths or boxes. The almonds were thought to symbolize longevity, fertility, health, wealth, and happiness.


Today’s wedding favors and gifts for your guest


Today wedding favors have become completely unique and depends on the theme of the wedding and the couple getting married.


With this in mind, it is the bride and groom’s responsibility to choose a gift or keepsake that not only goes with their wedding theme, but represents them as well.


Unique wedding favors and wedding keepsake favors


Unique wedding favors and wedding keepsake favors come in myriad styles and theme ideas are limited only to the couple’s imagination. Many couples choose to buy wedding favors that are personalized with the couple’s names and with the date of the wedding so guests can remember the occasion.


Other wedding guest favors include edible wedding favors, like customized chocolate bars, flower & garden wedding favors. Wedding keepsake favors include trinkets, pens, goblets, and more. Choosing and buying wedding favors


Choosing and buying your wedding favors is relatively easy. While many retail stores have cheap wedding favors and expensive wedding favors, online merchants often have access to a better selection and more reasonable prices. Larger sites like americanbridal.com have many options to choose from and make finding your favors much easier and less expensive.


A time-honored tradition that today has become almost important as the bridal dress itself, the giving of wedding favors to guests is a sign of gratitude or appreciation from the bride and groom. Thus choosing and buying wedding favors has become one of the most integral tasks when planning a wedding.

Abigail Newsom writes for the American Bridal. Please visit for more helpful information on Unique wedding favors and on Wedding keepsake favors.

Three Great Ideas for Choosing Fun and Meaningful Wedding Party Gifts

Tuesday, July 13th, 2010

By Todd Haness


More and more couples are doing things a little differently for their weddings. Many couples have wedding showers co-ed style instead of the traditional girlie bridal showers and some couples are even having bridesmen and groomsmaids attendants that stand up for them but break from the tradition of being of the same gender. Things like this may have shocked our grandparents, but these days weddings are becoming more personal and meaningful to the couple versus strictly following “how it’s always been”. So why not be a little different and plan your wedding party gifts together instead of the tradition of the Groomsmen gifts being left up to the Groom and Bridesmaid gifts being left to the Bride? These three great ideas will help get you on your way to choosing the perfect wedding party gifts for your special attendants.


One way of making the wedding party gifts fun and also meaningful is to choose a theme. This can be particularly simple if there is something that all or the majority of you already do together. One Bride and Groom recently chose golf themed gifts that were suitable for all of their attendants because they had all golfed with one another at various times. They chose items such as an 18 hole golf cooler and the fun insulated golf club drink dispenser that sits in your golf bag with your clubs and made it even more special by including gift certificates for a round at the course nearby for the Maid of Honor and the Best Man. Another variation could be to add a gift certificate for the pro shop or for lunch in the clubhouse. By including something they will use and keep as well as something experiential you will really thank them for sharing in your special day.


Another fun idea for the right group of wedding party attendants is Happy Hour and gifts of home barware. This is especially appropriate for the Bride and Groom who love wine and maybe even goes wine tasting with their friends. There are many items like beautiful wine stoppers and bottle opening tools as well as digital Wine Masters that help guide wine lovers in their selections of the perfect wine that can all be great gifts. Include a bottle of your favorite wine or perhaps a special bottle of a wine that you know your friends love, and you have a lovely wedding party gift sure to delight.


For wedding parties when there isn’t necessarily a common connection amongst the attendants apart from all being in your wedding, there is a way to tie it all together and make the wedding party gifts very meaningful. One couple recently chose a unique gift for each individual but the common link was that each gift was able to be engraved in some way. The Bride and Groom then chose a phrase that is inspirational to them and had all the gifts personalized with it along with the date of the wedding. The attendants all knew this was something personal that thought had gone into whether they received a picture frame with the saying, a money clip or a flask. Each item was chosen with the recipient’s taste in mind, but the common personalization brought it all together with meaning.


Choosing gifts for your wedding party should not be something that adds stress to your planning. These are your special friends and you want them to feel appreciated for sharing your special day, not to mention buying that bridesmaid dress or renting yet another tux! Use these ideas to spur some imagination and creativity to come up with gifts that are not only useful, but are thoughtful and meaningful to the recipient. Combined with a personal note, they are sure to be the gifts that won’t be put away on a shelf and forgotten.

About the Author


Todd Haness knows all about selecting great wedding party gifts as the head of Groomstop.com the leading online provider of gifts for the groom, best man, groomsmen, and the rest of the wedding party! GroomStop.com offers personalized engraving on many of their products.

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Choosing The Proper Wedding Flowers On A Budget

Thursday, July 8th, 2010

Wedding flowers are one of the biggest parts of any wedding budget, so saving money on them should be a top priority for any bride and groom. To save on money and to keep within your budget you should consider buying the flowers wholesale. Especially when the flowers are in season like spring it is a great time to purchase wholesale because of the stock of flowers. Remember to check your arrangement in a mirror with you holding it so you would picture how it would look like to someone else’s view. This is a new generation and silk wedding flowers are the rage.

White wedding dresses come in a wide variety of shades of white; you want to make sure that the flowers that you choose will coordinate with your wedding dress so you should match it with a swatch. Professional florist know accent the flowers just so, so they will attract attention to you in the way that you want. There is no shame in learning from the success and failures of others and doing so will generally save you a lot of grief. Your florist will help you with which flowers are seasonal if you are still unsure as to what to go for. Your local florist can recommend the many colorful options available. You are in for a pleasant surprise at your local florist. Florists can customize flowers to what ever you like, these fresh flowers with professional cutting them will make your bouquet outlast any store bought flowers.

The bouquets can be the same color as the bride’s bouquet or a different color. Bouquets can also be fashioned by keeping in mind the family tradition. Any good wedding florist should have at least a few sample bouquets they can show you. If no live bouquets are available, however, be sure to look through the photo book the florist has. Ensure that gift bouquets are ordered for the mothers. Problems arise because of last-minute flower substitutions due to weather or transportation issues, which may be more expensive. Women find themselves making last-minute decisions about changes to their arrangements, often without seeing what the revised bouquets will look like. Spring flowers make attractive centerpieces for tables and rooms. Bridal bouquets can be prepared with them.

The best way to evaluate how and where to allocate your wedding budget is to determine exactly what your priorities are. These days, 4 out of 5 couples pay for their own wedding and it helps to know how your budget should be broken down. It is with the budget that you can set realistic goals for your wedding and whether or not if your budget is realistic to your finances.

Since summer is the most popular time for weddings, it is very important to decide in advance the type of wedding flowers wanted by the bride. Since the florists are bound to be busy with many other weddings, the bride should be sure of her choices. Florists will also deliver all the flowers to your destination. Flowers in the center of the table always makes a good center piece, your guest will want to take these home and make your wedding day memorable. Most wedding florists will have a portfolio of photographs from past weddings, and they should be happy to share this portfolio of past work with potential customers. Most established florists are not one-man shows but a huge network of florists in different places.

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Choosing a Wedding Invitation for Your Unique Destination Theme

Tuesday, July 6th, 2010

A popular wedding trend is to hold a destination event where all of the event’s guests travel to a fabulous destination to celebrate together for the couple’s happy day. Destination weddings often take more planning and coordination than traditional weddings, simply because many people will have to coordinate their schedules in order to travel to the ceremony. This can make choosing the appropriate wedding invitations more difficult as well. By planning early, you can find the perfect wedding invitations to use for your big event that perfectly match your theme.

The first thing to consider when choosing a wedding invitation for a destination wedding is how you plan to incorporate the theme into the invitation design. Some couples look at the destination where their wedding will be held and choose invitations that use images associated with that area. For instance, if your destination is a tropical location, you may choose to use summery or beach-style images and colors on your wedding invitations.

If your wedding is at a resort that is well known for being in a certain area or having a certain focus, it can also be very appropriate to use images associated with that area to make your wedding invitations perfect. Consider the time of year that you wedding is taking place as well because this can help to influence the design decisions that you make when choosing your wedding invitations.

A second consideration when choosing wedding invitations for destination weddings is the necessary information that should be provided within your invitation. Traditional wedding invitations actually contain very little information. The most important information on a traditional invitation is the date, time and location. Although this information is also important for a destination wedding, more should be included.

The information that needs to be included on a destination wedding invitation includes; travel transportation suggestions, information for accommodations at the location, and suggested dates of travel in order to coordinate the dates and times when guests arrive at the destination. If discounts are being given by the destination, you should inform your guests about that. Your wedding invitation should inform your guests about every logistical detail of the event that could affect their travel and attendance.

One way to incorporate all of this information on a simple invitation may be to choose a double-sided design. A double-sided design allows you can to include the basic information on the front of the card, and then the travel details on the back of the card. Be sure to proofread your invitations because it is important to include all necessary information and this gives you enough time to make corrections if they are needed.

An important third consideration when choosing wedding invitations for a destination wedding is to include extra stationery if you are planning a secondary reception in your hometown after returning from your wedding. Many couples who have destination weddings choose to have a separate reception when they get home so that they can spend time and celebrate with the loved ones who were unable to attend the actual ceremony. You should include an extra invitation if you have planned such an event so that all of your guests are informed about an alternative or additional event that they can attend.

Finally, you need to remember that with a destination wedding, you should send out your wedding invitations considerably earlier than if all of your guests were located near the big event. Generally, you should allow three to four months for your guests to be able to plan their travel to attend your destination wedding. They may need to secure that time off from their jobs, plan their air travel, save money for the cost of staying at the wedding destination and prepare any other plans necessary for the trip. The more time you can provide for your guests, the more likely they can attend your ceremony.

Wedding invitations for destination weddings can be more complicated than traditional wedding events. With careful consideration and thought, you can find the perfect invitations to use and put them together to include all of the information you need to share with your guests. With your forethought and planning, you can be well prepared to celebrate your wedding day with your friends and family. A destination wedding is in excellent choice because it is beneficial to everybody attending. Your guests are able to enjoy the experience while having a vacation at a new location. A destination wedding may take much longer to plan and your guests should be given ample time to work the date into their schedules. When planning your invitations, it is a great idea to incorporate images of the location as this allows your guests to get a sense of what to expect upon arrival at the location.

Suzanne Bradley is a writer and blogger who discusses topics such as event planning and coordination. Ms. Bradley also writes about specific topics such as wedding gifts andwedding invitations.

Choosing the Right Wedding Cake Design

Tuesday, July 6th, 2010

The bride and the groom are of course the center of attention in any wedding. Even so, you would want to have the right decorative touch to make your photo and video souvenirs worth looking at. Part of your wedding design plan is your wedding cake design. The wedding cake design will always be the center of attention at the reception regardless of your cake’s size and shape. The following are some important concerns to think of before picking a wedding cake design.

Complementary Piece

Your wedding, theme, colors, gowns and decorations are all a reflection of your personal taste. You should never forget however, that your wedding cake design is also part of your unified decoration. The color, shape and decorations included in your wedding cake design should also therefore complement your theme. The trick is to plan all the other details of your wedding decorations, dresses and colors before choosing a wedding cake design. This will help you pick a design that will fit the whole picture.

The Ingredients

You may choose to have an experienced baker come up with your wedding cake design. You can also ask your wedding planner to take care of all the cake details or you can take care of the wedding cake design yourself. Whatever option you choose, it is not enough that you look into a portfolio or watch a cake making video. You should also know the different ingredients involved in cake making and how these can affect your whole wedding cake design.

Butter cream for example is the common choice for cake icing. You may however also use white margarine and fondant icing. The latter is a great choice if you want to have a smooth and elegant look. Aside from the wedding cake design however, you should also think about the flavor. Fondant may really look good but butter cream still tastes better. You should also look into the butter cream mix. Too much shortening will make the eating experience a greasy one.

Number of Guests

Your wedding cake design should also depend on the number of guests you have and if you have prepared other deserts. Do you want all your guests to have a piece of the cake? Will you be serving other sweet items to them? You may not need a five tier cake if you are serving other deserts or if you have very few guests. You should however prepare a wedding cake design with multiple tiers if you would like a hundred or more guests to have a piece of your cake.

Time Frame

It will take months to execute a complicated wedding cake design. If you didn’t know this and you only have a short time left, then you should go for a simple wedding cake design.

Budget

The wedding budget is almost always a part of wedding cake design concerns. You can have a great wedding cake design that will not cost much if you simply have sponge cake. You can then spend more on icing and cake decorations. You should also try to compute if you will be able to save on your wedding cake design by serving other deserts and just going for a smaller and simpler cake.

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Things to Consider When Choosing Wedding Dresses

Monday, July 5th, 2010

Weddings are very special occasions and more so to the bride. As the bride, you will want everything to be perfect and you will also want everyone to speak of how glorious your wedding ceremony was. There are many things that go into making a wedding successful. Among many others, the wedding dresses are especially vital. Wedding dresses are the single aspect that all people are going to be looking at, for inspiration and pleasure. Therefore, when it comes to the dress, a bride is going to go extra miles to look for the perfect dress. Many times, you might find yourself getting overwhelmed but you need to come down. The following are factors that will guide you into making a decision that you will not regret in regard to the dress. Before you go out looking for the dress, it is vital for you to consider the ideas you already have in your mind.

All girls will admire certain wedding dresses in their lifetime and when it comes to choosing your very own, the best thing to do is to go with your favorite style. However, you might find that the style you have in mind can be further enhanced and, it is good to consult an expert. When you follow through the idea with your stylist, you will come up with a masterpiece. Customizing a certain style to suit your needs is the best way to go. However, if you have nothing in mind, do not be too hard on yourself. You will have to visit shops where they sell wedding dresses so that you can be inspired. You can go to a bridal store near you and try out some of the dresses that will please you most. However, if you wish to have quick inspiration in designs, why not consider an online bridal store. This is where you get all the latest displays in dresses for weddings. Once you have looked at the various designs, it is vital for you to have someone close to you who can help you in making a decision.

When choosing wedding dresses, it is essential for you to consider the way the dress will fit you or look on you. In other words, there are certain styles and fits that look better on you and with the help of your close friends and stylist; you can choose a dress that will not just bring out your figure but, one that will make you look splendid. Another thing that you need to consider is the kind of budget you are working with. Many times, to look great, you need to part with quite a large sum but, there are many ways to go around it. Look for those stores that can offer you discounts. There are bridal stores which will offer you a fair price and you can look for them. Sometimes, you might decide to use the dress your mother used as passed down in your family. This is a great way to keep tradition alive and to honor weddings in your family. Whatever you choose, make sure to have a ball.

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Choosing Right Wedding Accessories For Bridesmaid

Thursday, July 1st, 2010

Wedding accessories are very significant in a wedding ceremony, which is the show of the taste and status of the bride as well as the bridesmaid. Careful selection is necessary, from the shoes, the necklace, the headwear and the bracelet. Just take shoes for example.

The shoes the bride chooses for her bridesmaids are also important. However beautiful a pair of shoes is, if the heel is higher than the heels a bridesmaid is used to wearing, she is likely to look awkward in them and perhaps more disastrously, may be unable to take part in the dancing.

Again, it is best to consult with the bridesmaids before investing in those eight inch stilettos, and be prepared to compromise. Often, items that have been designed especially for weddings will be more expensive than standard items, so the bride and bridesmaids may want to consider looking at other shoes first to see if there are any that co-ordinate well with the dresses. Failing that, if the bride has seen some suitable shoes in the same shop as the wedding bridesmaid dresses but feels they are too pricey, she could note down the name of the shoes and search for them on an auction website such as eBay.

If the bride is planning to ask her bridesmaids to wear jewelry, this should be co-ordinate with the dresses, and should not be as flamboyant or detailed as to detract from the rest of the outfit. A simple silver necklace from a high street retail store can add a subtly elegant finishing touch. If the bride and her bridesmaids are on a budget, they could see what jewelry they already have that will co-ordinate well.

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